I couldn’t resist taking a few glances as I pretended to look at something else in the distance…, something clever, something that wouldn’t be out of place! I had the PERFECT opportunity to strike up a casual conversation with this cute girl, all by herself, bored, ready for some chit-chat.But when we were out to dinner with another couple recently, I saw that they were [held] rapt by her every word.It made me remember that this was part of the reason I fell for her in the first place." Levine explains: "When we're in social situations, different aspects of our personalities emerge — and that can be sexy!hen it comes to getting closer with your mate, your first thought might be that you need to start scheduling more alone time together — but a one-on-one candlelit dinner for two is not always the best recipe for reigniting that spark.In fact, going on a double date with another couple could be just the thing to help you see your partner in a new light (or keep a new relationship from getting stale)." When the two of you go out, a t-shirt and jeans may be fine for the movies, but when you double date with another couple, you tend to take things up a notch — and making that extra effort when it comes to your appearance can be attractive."I have to admit, it's so easy to get into just throwing on my gray sweatpants, even on a Saturday night," agrees Joe.
It’s a given that the guy you’re dating probably loves your energy, and that you energize him."I tend to forget what a great storyteller my wife is," says Joe*, 42, of Brooklyn, NY."At home, we talk about things like the electric bill and the kids' homework.I figured she MUST get hit on all day by guys just like me, so I didn’t want to sound like a guy that was trying to pick her up… I TRIED to think of something to say, but in reality, my mind was a BLANK. Instead I was conquered by my own inner fears of not wanting not wanting to cause an awkward moment or be laughed at.I was ignorant when it came to women and it hurt to think that I might end up ALONE while everyone else was having fun.