Our whole relationship will be on a different level, and how we interact with the world will be radically shifted!" Neither of these assumptions is in any way wrong. "Um, when we're married, I want you to stick up for me when your friends make fun of what a geek I am…not like, all the time, but at least most of the time.
This terrifies me, as I really want to get/stay happily married, but I wonder why this happens … For better or for worse, each of us has expectations about what being married will mean to the relationship.
when people are together for ages, get married and then split. -Jan It's absolutely not uncommon at all: longtime partners who are together for years decide to get married, and then almost immediately decide to get divorced. For some people, that expectation might be, "Absolutely nothing will change, other than that we'll be wearing rings and will have had a big party." For other people, the expectation might be, "will change.
Obviously, there's no way for us to ever know exactly what makes individual couples split up.
Most of the contestants are happy if they bag a date and a free trip to Tenerife aka the Isle of Fernando's.
But for a lucky few, an appearance on Take Me Out leads to them being taken up the aisle... Adele had been engaged to love rat and Joseph star Darren Day in 2003 until (shock horror) he cheated on her, with Hear Say's Suzanne Shaw. Heartbroken Adele ditched Darren and by the time she signed up to Take Me Out in 2011 she was "on a mission to find a man".